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Crossing Over

“He who cannot forgive breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass.”― George Herbert

“At the end of my life, I know I won’t be wishing I’d held more back, been less effusive, more often stood on ceremony, forgiven less, spent more days oblivious to the secret wishes and fears of the people around me…”― George Saunders, The Braindead Megaphone

What will I lay down to enter the new year ahead, to enter this fresh day?
Not more
Less and deeper
Richness and connection
Purpose and meaning
Joy and delight
Clear the decks, discard, release, let go
Create space and capacity
To pick up the good and travel lightly
Open arms and heart
To embrace and be held
Mercy, love, forgiveness
To give and receive
Build and cross the bridge.

“What if we just started with the idea that all of us want to swim in mercy, love, and forgiveness?” – Father Greg Boyle

Travel Light

“The difference between you and God is that God doesn’t think He’s you. ”― Anne Lamott

“Forgiveness empties the past of its power to empty the present of its peace.”― L.R. Knost

Counting
Keeping score
Tracking
Fairness
Comparison
Being right
Proving
Performing
Complaining
Unforgiveness
Ruminating
It builds up
Little by little
Residue, rust, heavy load
Leave it
The freedom of forgiveness and letting go
A peace that passes understanding
Big sky, fresh wings, take flight.

“Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having had a better past.”― Anne Lamott

Putting Down to Pick Up

“Forgiveness doesn’t sit there like a pretty boy in a bar. Forgiveness is the old fat guy you have to haul up a hill.”― Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things

“You will learn a lot about yourself if you stretch in the direction of goodness, of bigness, of kindness, of forgiveness, of emotional bravery. Be a warrior for love.”― Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things

In the mountains and the valleys
And everything in between
May you follow the path of goodness, bigness, kindness
In the letting go, in the freedom of forgiveness, moving on
To the fullness of the present
Looking forward, not behind
To not miss one more day
A warrior for love
A hunter of joy
A soldier of peace.

“You don’t have a right to the cards you believe you should have been dealt with. You have an obligation to play the hell out of the ones you’re holding and my dear one, you and I have been granted a mighty generous one.”― Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things

Dappled with Light

“Maybe, love is always forgiveness, to a degree.”― Joyce Carol Oates

“Forgiveness, reader, is, I think, something very much like hope and love – a powerful, wonderful thing.
And a ridiculous thing, too.”― Kate DiCamillo, The Tale of Despereaux

May we put down offence.
Pick up forgiveness.
Walk lightly, generously and kindly.
Forgive. Hope. Love.
Powerful. Wonderful. Ridiculous.
Be ridiculous.
Free your heart.

“Like most hearts, it was complicated, shaded with dark and dappled with light.”― Kate DiCamillo

To See Anew

“Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having had a better past.”― Anne Lamott

“I think joy and sweetness and affection are a spiritual path. We’re here to know God, to love and serve God, and to be blown away by the beauty and miracle of nature. You just have to get rid of so much baggage to be light enough to dance, to sing, to play. You don’t have time to carry grudges; you don’t have time to cling to the need to be right.”― Anne Lamott

Unforgiveness. Resentment. Perfection. Judgment.
They get heavier the longer we carry them.
The stories we tell ourselves, about the past, about others, about self.
Loosen the binds, the rules, the roles, the excuses, the assumptions, the misunderstandings.
You get to write the story of this day, of the future.
Change the narrative.
The past is already written.
The good and the struggle.
The future need not be a repeat.
There will be more good, more struggle.
Unload the baggage.
Free up your hands for praise, gratitude, a warm embrace.
Become light enough to dance, sing, play.
Time is swift, finite, measured.
Do not waste it staring in the rearview mirror.
Keep your eyes on the road ahead and the scenery on new paths, off-trail.
Joy, sweetness, kindness, forgiveness, moving on, letting go, compassion, love.
These transcend, free and root us in the beauty of the present and possibility of the future.
New day, blank page.

“Each time we make a small choice toward justice, or buy fair trade, or seek to share instead of hoard, or extend mercy to those around us and kindness to those with whom we disagree, or say “I forgive you,” we pass peace where we are in the ways that we can. And God can take these ordinary things and, like fish and bread, bless them and multiply them. He can make revolution stories out of smallness.”— Tish Harrison Warren, Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life