Start Close In

“What do you think is the biggest waste of time?”
“Comparing yourself to others,” said the mole.”
― Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse

Start Close In by David Whyte

“Start close in, don’t take the second step or the third,
start with the first thing close in,
the step you don’t want to take.
Start with the ground you know, the pale ground beneath your feet,
your own way of starting the conversation.
Start with your own question, give up on other people’s questions,
don’t let them smother something simple.
To find another’s voice, follow your own voice,
wait until that voice becomes a private ear listening to another.
Start right now take a small step you can call your own
don’t follow someone else’s heroics,
be humble and focused,
start close in,
don’t mistake that other for your own.”

Turn down the volume.
The noise and clanging.
Others’ expectations, assumptions, opinions, fear.
Start close in.
Comparison and counting.
People pleasing and over functioning.
Should, must, have to, expectations, rules.
Start close in.
A firm pause, stillness, hard stop.
Wide space, margins.
To hear your own voice, soft whisper, home.
Start close in.
To cut your own path, one small step at a time.
Listen, foster, be gentle.
Kindness, grace, love.
Start close in.
Then go back out anew.

“Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist