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The Whole Pie

“The thing that grounds you, and the thing that really gives you a sense of wholeness, is your family, friends and your community. Those are the things that can mirror back to you what you’re experiencing, and can affirm to you that the stories you are telling are true.” – Dan Chaon

After Sunday and Monday traveling for work with delayed flights and stuck for about 12 hours each day in airports waiting, I spent the last leg of the re-booked late Monday night flight not doing work, listening to music, watching the sun glow above the pillows of clouds as the moon entered, reflecting off the wing.

This year, I’ve traveled more for work than I have in the past three years combined. In addition, there have been a lot of family health issues and challenges – stage 4 breast cancer, Mayo Clinic trips, hip replacement, dog ACLs repairs, dog allergies and a roof replacement for 9 year old roof … and the list goes on.

Exhausted and on the verge of feeling sorry for myself, I started to scan all of the pictures on my iPad from the past seven months. And that simple exercise gave me the entire picture – vacations with friends and family, special moments, running events, a college graduation, birthdays and celebrations. I’ve got a GOOD life with wonderful people/dogs scattered through all of it.

We can easily focus on the slices of life that test our mettle, patience, faith and resolve. But when we look at the whole pie, we immediately discover the wholeness and holiness of our life. While we often don’t see it in the midst of the moment, challenges grow our soul and spirit, teaching us to let go of that which is not worthy of our desperate grip. We become more compassionate, less judgmental, more accepting, loving unconditionally and simply amazed.

When on the tipping point into the hole of self-pity, take a step back, a deep breath, be quiet, reflect and thank God for all of the blessings bestowed on us through grace alone. Life is as good as we allow it to be. Start living each day with a light heart, heavy joy and deep gratefulness. Eat the whole pie.

“Above all the grace and the gifts that Christ gives to his beloved is that of overcoming self.” – Francis of Assisi

“Above all the grace and the gifts that Christ gives to his beloved is that of overcoming self.” – Francis of Assisi


11 Comments Post a comment
  1. Nailed it!!

    July 29, 2015
  2. A perfect reminder.

    July 30, 2015
  3. laura #

    What a great post. I do tend to focus on the negative things and really need to count my blessings every day with such a wonderful family and friends. Sometimes it’s hard when things aren’t going good, but this is a really good reminder. Have a great day.

    July 30, 2015
    • Thanks – it’s good to get a reset on our perspective. Being positive can be a lot of work. Have an awesome day.

      July 30, 2015
  4. Nice….very nice.

    July 30, 2015
  5. How is it that you always know just exactly what I need to read when I need to read it? 😉 Thank you.

    July 30, 2015
  6. Awesome post! I love your analogy of the whole pie! Great pic of you and your fur-kids! Hugz Lisa and Bear

    July 31, 2015
    • Thank you – it’s a good life – we just need to remember each day. Cast light and take it in.

      August 1, 2015

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